Cinta dan Anugerahnya

Bandung, [Senin] 6 Januari 2014

Cinta itu anugerah, teman.
Kamu butuh keajaiban seluruh elemen hidup kamu untuk akhirnya berakhir di pernikahan.
Banyak kasus yang salah satu elemennya hilang, ujungnya malah sakit hati. It happened in many times, so some people rich just because sold their broken heart in song or movie.

1. Agama
Ini elemen paling vital buat saya. Menurut saya, agama itu semacam pegangan paling dasar. Kalo dasar aja udah ga ketemu, saya juga ga tau mau gimana hubungannya diterusin.

2. Availability
Yaaah, gebetan single ato ga? Kalo ga single susah juga yaa. Gebetan punya cinta yang belum selesai ato ga? Ribet deh kalo cintanya belum kelar urusan.

3. Orang Tua
Wah ini juga termasuk vital. Soalnya kalo ortu ga restu itu emang pusing banget. Biasanya kalo dipaksakan ujung2nya bisa jadi malah ga baik.

4. Sosial
Mesti dipikirin juga. Kira2 kalo udah bareng, bakal bagus ga buat Sosial life kamu? Saya di sini ga ngomongin soal materi, tapi lebih ke networking. Soalnya biasanya, kalo emang hubungannya caranya ga bener, bisa jadi kehilangan aspek ini. Alias, musuh bersama cynt.

5. Visi
Setelah empat aspek di atas, coba liat yg ini. Kalo ini evaluasinya harus bener2. Diomongin banyak waktu bareng. Kalo udah se visi, kerjasama bangun keluarga pun jadi nyaman.

6. Personality
Di sini saya masukin life style sama traits2 dia yang terkait. Kalo saya pribadi, pasangan saya terlalu tajir juga bikin saya pusing. Jadi suka prefer yang kira2 yg mau diajak ngangkot bareng. :3


Udah segitu aja. Kalo oke semua, tunggu apa lagi?
Cinta itu anugrah, temaan ~~


Sumber: by experience ~~

Sweetest Thing in 2013

Emang cuma kamu yang paling bisa aku andelin :(

Mati!

Mati!
Aku cinta kau dan dia!
Seperti dengan dua raga yang berbeda.

Kita apa?

Kita bicara pada siang dan malam
Kita tertawa dan mengernyit di saat-saat yang bahkan bisa sulit
Kita bisa bersama tanpa bicara, ketika setiap jam berharga, dan malam tak lagi dingin.

Kita apa?

Mudah jawabnya. Teman.

Tapi, seperti apa?

Ya, istilah umum menjadi kurang tinggi.
Atau memang kita yang harus merendah?

Saat ini mungkin tidak peduli.
Saat ini mungkin tidak (mau) melihat.
Saat ini mungkin mengerti, tapi tak pening.

Sampai kapan?

Kenapa menunggu?
Kenapa ingin berlalu?
Sudah tahu dan memang tabu.

Berjanji dulu?

Sudah aku lakukan sedari dulu,
Tapi.... sudah sebut saja aku hanya sedang bertaruh.

Lovely Night

Oriflame - MIB -- Warung Laos -- Ciwalk --  Kedai Ling Ling -- Arnes

I don't mind have earn IDR 300- for this night, or another night.
Great escape and great partner, had some little-funny-nervous :))
Hope you're enjoying this night too :)

Temen bilang,

Relationship are like glass. Sometimes its better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

Mungkin bener,
Yang pertama, ternyata ga sedeket itu.
Semakin ke sini semakin banyak yang ga tau dan semakin ga ngerti.

Yang kedua, semakin ke sini hidup terlalu berwarna.
Terlalu cepet di atas atau di bawah.
Dan sayangnya banyak yang tanpa penjelasan.

Yang ketiga, only like another *e*k.
Yes here, and yes that too with unlucky statement, "I just want everyone happy".

Yang keempat, I just want a stable life.

Aku butuh ketenangan dan apa yang aku pantas dapatkan.

Tidak selalu ada di atas atau di bawah.

Jika sudah seperti rollercoaster, 

terlalu cepat,

Dampak cuma dua, excited or....tired

Really Hard

It's really hard to stay away from somebody who too adorable, even only chat with him.

I just read this :

friends with benefits

Two friends with a very casual dating relationship. The benefits can be really good, long, flirty conversations; make-out sessions with no commitment; sex without commitment; etc.

And watched these :
And I know that

Dylan: It's just sex
Tommy: That never works, bro! She's a girl, sex always means more to them. Even if they don't admit it.
Dylan: Jamie's different.
Tommy: Does she have a penis where most girls have a vagina?
Dylan: No penis.
Tommy: Then she's not different.

That never works.

Cemburu

Cemburu itu rasanya benar-benar seperti zat hitam yang memanaskan. Cepat, dan langsung menutupi seluruhnya. Otak memang masih bisa berfikir, tapi perlu waktu untuk menenangkan - hingga nafas sekalipun.

Dear miss, you know nothing about last week in a same day. But, I bet, still you who have the last laugh.  Damn.

Enough. Who Do You Think You Are?

No, I can't take one more step towards you
'Cause all that's waiting is regret
Don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

And I've learned to live half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

Dear, It took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
'Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?

Who do you think you are?

Who do you think you are?

Another Case Closed

Clint Barton/Hawkeye: Why am I back? How did you get him out?
Natasha Romanoff/Black Widow: Cognitive recalibration I hit you really hard in the head.
Clint Barton/Hawkeye: Thanks

Now Perfect

Wah, gila lah. Baru bangun dapet sms kasar "please stop text something useless to me".
Hahaha, langsung mikir lama.
Sebenernya apa si yang selama ini aku kerjain?
Penasaran doang kan?
Dan.. uda kejawab juga kan role play nya Senin kemaren?
Wah ini sie akhirnya cuma tiga kata, "Lo. Gue. End" :))
Ga perlu shalat istikharah ternyata :))
Dan, ga perlu banyak korban berjatuhan.

Lucu

Lucu ketika ternyata orang yang kita cari selama ini ada di sekeliling kita sebenernya tapi situasi dan kondisi yang ga bener dan complicated. Buat nerus namanya Nekat. Buat ngehindarin namanya Nyiksa.

Happy Aja

Mau nunggu ampe fix.\
Jangan2. Terlalu banyak yang dikorbanin.\
Jadi bakalan sad ending dong ini?\
Urusan ntar, yang penting happy2 aja dulu.\

Kadang, hidup itu lucu.
Tetep aja jalan walo udah tau ujungnya bakal jurang.
Cuma satu alasan, hidup cuma sekali. Belum tentu ada lagi.



If I had no more time
No more time left to be here
Would you cherish what we had?
Was it everything that you were looking for?
If I couldn't feel your touch
And no longer were you with me
I'd be wishing you were here
To be everything that I'd be looking for
I don't wanna forget the present is a gift
And I don't wanna take for granted the time you may have here with me
'Cause Lord only knows another day is not really guaranteed

So every time you hold me
Hold me like this is the last time
Every time you kiss me
Kiss me like you'll never see me again
Every time you touch me
Touch me like this is the last time
Promise that you'll love me
Love me like you'll never see me again

Oh Oh Oh

How many really know what love is?
Millions never will
Do you know until you lose it
That it's everything that we are looking for
When I wake up in the morning
You're beside me
I'm so thankful that I found
Everything that I been looking for

I don't wanna forget the present is a gift
And I don't wanna take for granted the time you may have here with me
'Cause Lord only knows another day is not really guaranteed

So everytime you hold me
Hold me like this is the last time
Every time you kiss me
Kiss me like you'll never see me again
(can you do that for me baby)
Every time you touch me
(see we don't really know)
Touch me like this is the last time
(see everyday we never know)
Promise that you'll love me
(I want you to promise me)
Love me like you'll never see me again
(like you'll never see me again)

Oh oh oh oh oh

Ketika

Jatinangor, [Minggu] 8 April

Ketika mendapati teman masih belum bisa move on dari mantannya, sedangkan mantanya berulangkali berkata "genjot" itu....aneh ya rasanya >:)

Tribute to You

Hey Boy it’s me
It’s been a long time you know
I know you watchin’ me
You have been watchin’ me all nite long
Boy you know what time it's

Penjarakan jiwaku dengan mata nakalmu itu
Perkenalkan aku pada senyum manis penuh maksudmu
Tahan langkahmu bikin mu tak bisa ajari aku
Tertawakanku kau salah aku bukanlah .. baru

Berdegup kencang rasanya dadaku ini
Ingin berteriak aku mau kamu
Tubuhku bergerak aku tak bisa diam
Aku tak mau menunggu kamu

Biar diriku
Ikuti dirimu jadi hambamu
Untuk cara jadi jadi karyamu
Jangan kau jadikan ku simpananmu
Tak tahan diriku saat

Kamu melihatku nafsu kau pikir ku tak tahu
Dekatiku seakan kau tak perduli waktu
Gayamu buaiku ku akui aku mau
Kau godai aku

Biar diriku
Ikuti dirimu jadi hambamu
Untuk cara jadi jadi karyamu
Jangan kau jadikan ku simpananmu
Tak tahan diriku saat kau godai aku lagi

Stay cool and lovely
Aku siap ingin tahu karena ini pilihanku
Tak bisa kau hindari racun ku 'kan lumpuhkan kamu
Jangan salahkan siapa-siapa kalau kau tak percaya
karena ku tak ragu-ragu saat kau mencumbuku

Stay away from me
Speakin' my language and make it swing
Better to say
Amateur said i'm your teacher

Whomsoever, Whensoever, Whatsoever

Biar diriku
Ikuti dirimu jadi hambamu
Untuk cara jadi jadi karyamu
Jangan kau jadikan ku simpananmu
Tak tahan diriku saat

Kamu melihatku nafsu kau pikir ku tak tahu
Dekatiku seakan kau tak perduli waktu
Gayamu buaiku ku akui aku mau
Kau godai aku

Melihatku nafsu kau pikir ku tak tahu
Dekatiku seakan kau tak perduli waktu
Gayamu buaiku ku akui aku mau
Kau godai aku

Melihatku nafsu kau pikir ku tak tahu
Dekatiku seakan kau tak perduli waktu
Gayamu buaiku ku akui aku mau
Kau godai aku




Bukan nya aku tak tahu
Kau sudah ada yang punya
Atau bisikan cinta
Ku tahu engkau berdusta

Namun ku tak mau mengerti
Selama kau masih bersamaku
Karna ku suka,ku butuh cinta yang pernah hilang dariku

Cinta ini kadang kadang tak ada logika
Berisi smua hasrat dalam hati
Ku hanya ingin dapat memiliki
Dirimu hanya untuk sesaat

Bukan nya aku tak tahu
Kau sudah ada yang punya
Karna kau telah bisikkan cintamu padaku
Ku tahu engkau berdusta

Cinta ini kadang kadang tak ada logika
Berisi smua hasrat dalam hati
Ku hanya ingin dapat memiliki
Dirimu hanya untuk sesaat



Bilang saja bila kau mau
Bilang saja bila tak mau
Katakan sejujurnya
Kepada dirinya

Lelaki terkadang selalu ingin memaksakan
Apa yang mereka inginkan untuk memiliki
Sebelum semua menjadi semakin masalah
Kau pun harus memilih

Setiap wanita selalu ingin dicintai
Tetapi mereka hanya cinta pada seorang
Sebelum semua menjadi semakin masalah
Kau pun harus menjawab

Ketika cinta menjadi suatu dilema
(Bahagia) akan terasa pedih di hati


I let it fall, my heart,
And as it fell you rose to claim it
It was dark and I was over
Until you kissed my lips and you saved me

My hands, they're strong
But my knees were far too weak
To stand in your arms
Without falling to your feet

But there's a side to you
That I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say
They were never true, never true,
And the games you play
You would always win, always win.

[Chorus:]
But I set fire to the rain,
Watched it pour as I touched your face,
Well, it burned while I cried
'Cause I heard it screaming out your name, your name!

When I lay with you
I could stay there
Close my eyes
Feel you here forever
You and me together
Nothing is better

'Cause there's a side to you
That I never knew, never knew,
All the things you'd say,
They were never true, never true,
And the games you play
You would always win, always win.

[Chorus:]
But I set fire to the rain,
Watched it pour as I touched your face,
Well, it burned while I cried
'Cause I heard it screaming out your name, your name!

I set fire to the rain
And I threw us into the flames
Where I felt something die
'Cause I knew that there was the last time, the last time!

Sometimes I wake up by the door,
That heart you caught must be waiting for you
Even now when we're already over
I can't help myself from looking for you.

[Chorus:]
I set fire to the rain,
Watched it pour as I touched your face,
Well, it burned while I cried
'Cause I heard it screaming out your name, your name

I set fire to the rain,
And I threw us into the flames
Where I felt something die
'Cause I knew that there was the last time, the last time, oh, oh!

Let it burn
Oh oh ohhhh
Let it burn
Oh oh ohhhh
Let it burn
Oh oh ohhhh